THIS PART. Whew. "I apologized to her because I felt the need to. I did it for myself. Not for her. She didn’t ask me for one. It was self-serving. I shouldn’t have put the pressure on her to absolve me of any guilt I was feeling at that time. She owed me nothing."
I think you talked me off the ledge of doing this with an ex one time because you reminded me of how self serving it was. I have apologized to a few others and all but one were very receptive and accepted the apology. One of them left me on read.
THIS PART. Whew. "I apologized to her because I felt the need to. I did it for myself. Not for her. She didn’t ask me for one. It was self-serving. I shouldn’t have put the pressure on her to absolve me of any guilt I was feeling at that time. She owed me nothing."
Thanks man, I'm imagining that you've experienced this on one side or the other? How'd it go?
I think you talked me off the ledge of doing this with an ex one time because you reminded me of how self serving it was. I have apologized to a few others and all but one were very receptive and accepted the apology. One of them left me on read.